The more close to have a new family member, the more nervous and thinking on the future. After dinner, I suddenly recalled a few things happened in my high school life. I always think I am a person needing encouragement from others, especially from those whom I am familiar with. When I talked to my mother something that I had got a huge improvement, I couldn't remember what it was exactly, my mother's reaction was out of my expectation. She rejected to give a compliment by raising her eyebrow in disdain and said " it is only a small thing, cannot compared to others who were really good at "the thing"." I can still remember the feeling that I was so depressed and angry but I could not do anything except crying. I expressed my grievance, yet she did not think it is a big deal. Actually, it did influenced me in a negative way that I barely knew how nice it is to give others compliment until I found the failures on personal relationship in past working experience.
The reason why I want to write this experience is that I really want to give a good education to my daughter. I learned a lot from my American friends who taught her seven children in home before they get into junior school. All children now have their own families now in happiness with bless from God. In my opinion, it is a cultural thing that really lives deeply in our country. We barely say thanking or loving words between families. Sometimes, we think it is too embarrassed and emotional to say those words between families. However, children need that.
So, for my new daughter, I need to get improvement on my learning and be bonded to her growth.
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